When men spend time away from their mates, their sperm count – and libido – increase, the better to overpower any competitor’s own sperm in the case of any infidelity.The human penis is shaped to act as squeegee; the flared head of the glans and tapered shape of the shaft serve to help scrape out competitors’ sperm from one’s mate.One night during this time, a guy named Elliott walked me home after class.Whatever we talked about was not interesting, but I could tell that Elliott was interested and I liked the feeling of being desired. I thought I was in love with her, and so I came clean and told Rick I was having an affair.Though my relationship with Justin had yet to turn sexual, it felt inevitable.Never mind that he and I grew less compatible as we got older, he was everything my father wasn't. One night I drunkenly stumbled home with a guy I'd met at a party. This was how I justified my transgressions back then, by telling myself I couldn't control it. I quit my job and went back to grad school to become a writer. The problem was that — when it came to sex — these political and intellectual beliefs about sex made it that much harder to admit that my personal sexual conduct was problematic. Since Rick wanted to be with me, this was something he'd just have to accept. He and I would chat online all day when I was at work, and we started attending literary readings together in the evenings.The first time I cheated on Rick, we were freshman in college and I was living in Mexico as a student abroad. We were seen together so often people started to assume we were dating. Never mind that I was still engaged to Rick at the time.
Women want men whose genes will help ensure that their children will survive to reproduce in turn and who can help raise and protect the child until it reaches maturity.
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You might as well educate yourself on the breed of people who are fine with infidelity.1.
We know that horrible revelation has crossed your mind more times than you can count. You hate to think you about it, but you can't help but wonder, more likely to have an affair.
The bad news is, they have more ways to hide it if they do.