The most ironic thing about me dating only Asian men (short or otherwise), I feel, is my body type.
At 5’9”, 150 lbs and hips to spare, I’m a relatively tall white woman and I know I’m NOT the kind of girl that Asian men typically go for.
One interesting effect of the obesity epidemic has been an increase in the desirability of Asian women.
Thirty years ago, nailing an Asian chick was a consolation prize for a white guy who struck out with his own kind.
While there are some short Asian men that are attracted to tall white woman, there are so many more that are turned-off by my height.
I know that there are those out there that don’t care about my weight (which is actually normal for 5’9”), To be honest, though, I’ve come to accept my body, even though it took a few years. I’m not afraid to wear high heels and I’ve come to tolerate my hips.
Before I get called out for stereotyping or generalizing, I do have my reasons and experiences.
For every short Asian man that does come forward and say that hips are attractive, there are at least ten of them that expect a less curvaceous figure from me.
Nowadays there are so few thin white females that men must look elsewhere.
What is interesting is that White men now prefer Asian women (18%) over White women (5%).
In 2009 White men still preferred White women (10%) over Asian women (6%).
"I've heard great stories from friends about dating and meeting people online, but didn't believe in online dating... He didn't expect much from dating sites either but things completely changed when we met.
Naturally, we got to know one another at a deeper level and discovered how perfect we were together.