We broke up after the first year as she was unhappy and thought I was cheating on her when I wasn’t.
It later transpired that she had cheated on me but blamed the problems on me as her guilt was killing her.
We are still friends and say “hello” when we see each other.
If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. And to think, I first wanted to date your brother.5. He still has his ex’s photos and refuses to remove them. He says that he doesn’t have any feeling about her or her pictures but these photos have to be saved because they are his memories and remind him of his past.He also mentions that I will never see them but maybe, after 20 years or so, we will check them together and laugh.Do you go for it, even though your friend was with him first? She not only said it was okay, she was the one who made it happen! Dating your friend’s ex can be a really, really bad situation. But the more I hung out with him, the more I realized he kept asking me about her, asking if cool things I did were her idea, what she was up to.