It should not be taken lightly, nor left to chance or hormones.
It should be taken as seriously as any other major decision in life--with prayer, careful investigation and family involvement.
How about you just ask me what I want to be when I grow up instead?
” “I think the weirdest thing that’s ever happened to me is getting a Facebook message from this guy I met at a Muslim Students Association’s event. Here I am at my first week of university after spending 12 years at an all-girls school, thinking I am finally going to have my moment, and instead I get this fool.
And in the middle of it is your average hijab-wearing girl who just wants to listen to some trap music, contour like a Jenner, and not be asked her political views or ISIS every time she leaves her house.
“Well, yes, it started out as a political decision but it has manifested into preference. I just don’t find white men that attractive anymore.” “Do you find that limiting? I would later learn how living in a society where positive or attractive images of brown men and women were marginalized or non-existent would affect who I thought was attractive.According to Muslim dating rules, girls are banned from starting romantic relationships with non-Muslim men. But the times are changing, and it’s normal to see a Muslim dating online or drinking alcohol.Any attempt to ask a Muslim woman out on a date can still be a tough, yet rewarding, task.First of all, let’s say that it’s possible; otherwise, there wouldn’t be so many Muslim dating sites on the web.But a lot depends on the religiosity of the girl’s family.