but we got back together and i thought we were on our way to work things out. why is he on this site if not to look for someone else.. I was also thinking that If he goes on a date I just turn up. At the same time I could just join i and address the issue might as well while I'm there...😳 Leave. I was at some point doing things that scared me because I would never do such thing.
But for some reason my gut told me something was off.yes! I found on his computer chat conversations he was having with random girls .. In one of those chats he introduces himself."such in such" from POF.. The profile says hes just there looking for friends, that he isnt seeking commitment or relationship. However all other info like city and age are also false. It was a kind of self harm which again nobody knows because I find it embarrassing.
Perhaps you have been hurt by an unfaithful partner in the past and without realising it you are bring with lack of trust to your new relationship.
Imagine how good it will feel when you confirm he or she only dating you. But now you can stop wasting time on people not worth being with.
I havent confronted him about it, mainly because im waiting to see how long he keeps it up. I felt I'm not lovable and well ..hated myself for it.
Surely he will wants to bring her home and do whatever. Since I made my post I found out he was talking to a girl for about a month that he met in Badoo and he lied to me and said he was going to "play ball" and ended up going to hook up w/her. This is the first time I'm talking about this amd nobody knows in my environmemt because I'd feel ashamed open up about it.
We'be been living together for a year now so if a girl says yes let's meet up ...
and if i bring it to light, I feel i have to be ready to call it all off.. It feels surreal, I cannot comprehend how he can act normal taking me to family dinners go shopping and asking out other girls on badoo and registering on sites like toyboy warehouse.