I don’t have any strange fetish, I have never paid for sex in my life and I also don’t have any psychological issues that make me afraid to date women from my race.
Yet, I am still immensely attracted to Asian women.
The relationship constellation that I am going to talk about in this article is one of the most popular, most criticized and at the same time one of the most natural constellations that you can find in the sphere of interracial dating.
From all the men I ever talked about this subject I have only met a handful of guys who were not attracted to Asian women.
But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese, then the probabilities are in their favour.
Having said that, I'm surprised at what British men, both young and old, generally get away with when talking about East Asian women (Chinese, Japanese, Korean etc.) as well as South East Asian women (Vietnam, Thailand etc.) I've heard my Caucasian friends recommend to their male, single mates that they should date “nice Chinese girls”, with the added bonus that Chinese women are far more sexually open-minded than Caucasian girls.
In the areas of California where I grew up, where Asians range from 20 to 50% of the student population, a college-age male would have to make an active effort to exclude Asian females from their dating pool. But by constantly projecting this idea that men who specifically like Asian women are creepers, we risk making otherwise decent, respectable guys avoid dating Asian girls for fear of being labeled a creeper -- .
Ironic as it is, I've met guys who have come to me and said, "I like this girl a lot, but I don't want people to judge me because she's Asian." "I know this great bibimbap place in K-Town, but will she think I'm racist because she's Japanese?
" "I taught English in Cambodia out of college because it was a good opportunity; now everyone assumes I'm a sexpat." That's not to say creepers don't exist.
Nearly every man has yellow fever, even though I personally don’t like this expression, because it implicates that being attracted to Asian women is a sickness, a perverse fetish.
Isn’t it ironic that we men are labeled as liberal-minded, tolerant and progressive, when we say that we are attracted to women from races that are not so popular on the dating market, but we are automatically creepy perverts with psychological issues, when we say that we are attracted to Asian girls?